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Award-winning author Jane Leder and guests take a deep dive into the joys and challenges of being an older woman. “Older Women & Friends” is a podcast that sets the record straight, dispels myths, explores the many contributions older women make, and the wisdom they’ve earned and are anxious to share. Older women know a thing or two about living with a keen sense of wonder and an abiding appreciation for the gift of longevity. So, it’s time to change the perception that the gig is just about up when, in truth, the second wave of the journey has just begun.

Older Women & Friends
Older Women & Friends

Award-winning author Jane Leder and guests take a deep dive into the joys and challenges of being an older woman. “Older Women & Friends” is a podcast that sets the record straight, dispels the myths, explores the many contributions older women make and the wisdom they have earned and are anxious to share. Add a sense of humor, and there are many reasons why older women are the happiest demographic in the country today.

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The Midlife Gals Gone Gray, w/ sisters Kelly and Sally Jackson
byJane Leder

Kelly Jackson, 73, and Sally, 75, are sisters who have lived together without husbands or children for almost 20 years. They reconnected as live-in caregivers for their mother, and during the four years they cared for her, they turned to blogging and short videos to keep their spirits up. They used the handle, “Midlife Gal’s Gone Gray,” and their mission was to ensure that women in their 60s, 70s, 80s, and beyond never stop laughing. After a decade living in Honolulu, the sisters are back on the mainland, intending to become senior social media influencers.

With over 300,000 viewers on their platforms and thousands of likes, shares, and subscribers, I’m betting on their success.

Chapters

00:25 Introduction and First Impressions

00:48 Sisters Reunited: A Journey Begins

10:25 Childhood Memories and Family Dynamics

17:16 Caring for Mom: A New Chapter

23:06 Finding Laughter in Life’s Challenges

28:40 Political Humor and Social Media Aspirations

30:26 Words of Wisdom for Older Women

“We’re two sisters, old as dirt and bold as brass. Reality at its most bizarre.”

Takeaways

The sisters had a non-traditional upbringing with a mother who was not very maternal.

They decided to care for their mother when they realized she needed help.

Laughter and humor are essential for coping with life’s challenges.

Moving to Hawaii was a significant turning point in their lives.

They found creative outlets to express themselves and cope with caregiving.

The importance of sibling relationships and shared experiences is highlighted.

Aging can be navigated with humor and creativity.

They reflect on their childhood memories and how they shaped their lives.

The sisters emphasize the importance of finding joy in everyday life.

Wisdom gained from experiences can be shared with others, especially older women.

https://www.youtube.com/@TheMidlifeGalsGoneGrayINF/shorts

  https://www.youtube.com/@TheMidlifeGalsGoneGrayINF/shorts

https://www.tiktok.com/@themidlifegalsgonegray

https://www.instagram.com/sallyjackson5848/?hl=en

I’m now up on YouTube.

You can watch this episode at  https://youtu.be/72wGKcF6m4U

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Podcast Kudos

Jane, I love how your conversations spotlight the depth and wisdom of women’s lived experience, and how you weave that into themes of authenticity and power. These exchanges aren’t just inspiring; they’re helping reshape the narrative of what leadership and success look like for women at every stage.

– Martha Wooten, Coach, Wellness and Wealth Advocate

Jane Leder, you truly have a gift, and I love how you as an older woman have leveraged your considerable strengths and experience to lift up other women’s messages.

– Janine Vanderburg
founder, Changing The Narrative

I’ve done hundreds of podcasts, and yours is one of the best.”

– Laurie Minsk
Ph.D., author of Becoming Cliterate

Want to have a great conversation about growing older? The person you want to be speaking with is Jane Leder of the “Older Women and Friends” podcast.

– Ann Douglas
Author, The Messy Middle

I enjoy your shows and can never wait too long for the next episode to be released. Thank you from Australia.

– Dale Quinn
listener and verified Apple Podcasts Review

I searched for podcasts that tell the whole truth about aging, not just the challenges, but the unexpected joys. “Older Women & Friends” does exactly that.

– Melinda Blau
author, The Wisdom Whisperers

I adore this podcast and take valuable insights from every episode. Research and passion for each guest permeate every episode.

– ceeohbee
Verified Apple Podcast Review

Thank you for all you do to open doors to health and well-being as we age!!!

Thanks for inviting truly inspiring women to your podcast Jane Leder … and especially for your unique and fascinating line of questions.

– Diana Place
founder of 333 Collective, Third Act Quest, and Quest

What a great role model you are, that we are to learn, grow, and make a difference in the world!

– Sally Crawford Duplantie
gerontologist

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